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If you're going with flats or a shorter heel, both skirt options could work depending on your height

It also made it a little difficult to filter through what I could actually buy (and in my size)

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I agree with everything you pointed out

However, if the family has requested a lighter palette, or if you want to integrate lighter pieces into your layers, reviewing the rules for wearing white to a funeral will help you balance a softer color choice with proper mourning etiquette